THE SECRET LIFE OF BECOMING A MILITARY SPOUSE || WHAT I WISH I KNEW & ASSUMPTIONS 2
If you're officers and I think. That you can just have a house and you don't. Even be single and then your girlfriend can live with. You but like as we're just like brush out a basic like coming to a base no your girlfriend cannot like live with. You on the base says do not get to come home for from a deployment for any reason like. You literally have to be sometimes not. Even but like pushing out a baby like the next like a couple months and then. Though could be able to come home possibly but a lot of times not.
Even a lot of times the husband sadly misses the birth of their children death in the family occasionally. It just depends on the situation. What they're doing there and certain scenarios but nine times out of ten. You have a cold and you can't take care of your kids for a week like no your husband's not coming home your spouse isn't coming home just because of that they cannot come home for any reason oh do. This is a super common question. It it's kind of hard. When people ask. That question. Because we don't.
Even know how. It it's kind of just our life. This is what we decided to do. This is we wanted to be with our husbands or wives styles and we just sacrifice things for them and that's how. It we just be the best. We can and do the best. We can and that's how. It personally and that's how a lot of spouses do. It you don't. Even know what you're getting into. You come into. This world and so. I don't know how. Either okay so. This is a funny. One I haven't experienced. This one yet but you've seen. It a lot around. This is like. More towards.
If you're living on the base. You could possibly get a citation for not trimming your weaves or pulling your weeds like in a world. What world would. You live in like outside and like. Someone come and yell at you. Because I guess away maybe so it's kind of like HOA but like it's so weird. I never thought. That you could get in trouble for not pulling your weeds so in case. You didn't know. You know plans mean. Nothing so gosh. I got so many messages on Instagram like saying to put. This one in their plans. Nothing it was in like different variations lots of people said. It in different ways but basically plans mean. Nothing so you think you're making plans to go home for Christmas think again you're probably your husband's going for training and you didn't.
Even know so oh gosh plans. Me nothing you can plan but I probably don't booked a plane ticket to like the week before maybe. Even the day before um so. You can try to plan things but most likely it's not gonna work out unfortunately my husband has missed my daughters of birthday for four years in a row he's only been there for the birth which I guess is the most important part but oh man. He has missed. All her birthdays unfortunately and he's pretty much like not really been there the day of my birthday or like like. That silly but it doesn't matter really. We don't care. He cares to be there for my daughter's birthday and for my birthday but he I understand but it's more my daughter like. He wants to be there for her so we're hoping this year maybe but her birthday's in June which is like. All the big training happens during this summer or people are pcsing and stuff like. That so super busy during the summer so a lot of times kids.
That have summer birthdays or wives or spouses. That have summer birthdays. They will miss their birthday. Because that's when a lot of training goes down so the commissary ain't. It for the produce um my gosh. I got a lot of people messaging me or commenting on my last video saying like I'm sorry. You had such a bad experience with your commissary my commissary is so-and-so better but that's awesome like. I think I would love to have a great commissary but oh my gosh at least ours here fort benning the the produce is just not a like. It is it spoils in like literally a day I'll get strawberries and the next day they'll have like white mold on them and I look at them before like I'll buy them so.
Even a lot of times the husband sadly misses the birth of their children death in the family occasionally. It just depends on the situation. What they're doing there and certain scenarios but nine times out of ten. You have a cold and you can't take care of your kids for a week like no your husband's not coming home your spouse isn't coming home just because of that they cannot come home for any reason oh do. This is a super common question. It it's kind of hard. When people ask. That question. Because we don't.
Even know how. It it's kind of just our life. This is what we decided to do. This is we wanted to be with our husbands or wives styles and we just sacrifice things for them and that's how. It we just be the best. We can and do the best. We can and that's how. It personally and that's how a lot of spouses do. It you don't. Even know what you're getting into. You come into. This world and so. I don't know how. Either okay so. This is a funny. One I haven't experienced. This one yet but you've seen. It a lot around. This is like. More towards.
If you're living on the base. You could possibly get a citation for not trimming your weaves or pulling your weeds like in a world. What world would. You live in like outside and like. Someone come and yell at you. Because I guess away maybe so it's kind of like HOA but like it's so weird. I never thought. That you could get in trouble for not pulling your weeds so in case. You didn't know. You know plans mean. Nothing so gosh. I got so many messages on Instagram like saying to put. This one in their plans. Nothing it was in like different variations lots of people said. It in different ways but basically plans mean. Nothing so you think you're making plans to go home for Christmas think again you're probably your husband's going for training and you didn't.
Even know so oh gosh plans. Me nothing you can plan but I probably don't booked a plane ticket to like the week before maybe. Even the day before um so. You can try to plan things but most likely it's not gonna work out unfortunately my husband has missed my daughters of birthday for four years in a row he's only been there for the birth which I guess is the most important part but oh man. He has missed. All her birthdays unfortunately and he's pretty much like not really been there the day of my birthday or like like. That silly but it doesn't matter really. We don't care. He cares to be there for my daughter's birthday and for my birthday but he I understand but it's more my daughter like. He wants to be there for her so we're hoping this year maybe but her birthday's in June which is like. All the big training happens during this summer or people are pcsing and stuff like. That so super busy during the summer so a lot of times kids.
That have summer birthdays or wives or spouses. That have summer birthdays. They will miss their birthday. Because that's when a lot of training goes down so the commissary ain't. It for the produce um my gosh. I got a lot of people messaging me or commenting on my last video saying like I'm sorry. You had such a bad experience with your commissary my commissary is so-and-so better but that's awesome like. I think I would love to have a great commissary but oh my gosh at least ours here fort benning the the produce is just not a like. It is it spoils in like literally a day I'll get strawberries and the next day they'll have like white mold on them and I look at them before like I'll buy them so.
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